Love. A Battlefield

I've just heard Jordin Spark's new song on MixFM - Battlefield.
& it made me realized...

Why does love always ended up like a battlefield to certain people?

Love. Relationships. Affections.
(I'm talking about Boy Girl Relationship here.)
Here's a sequence & summarized story to share...

Before we start a relationship, we... fight for feelings.
After feelings bloomed, we... fight for true love.
In a relationship, we... fight for anything to protect the love we have.
We also have to fight for trust & honesty.
If you realized, ,most of the time, we... fight through jealousy, envy, materiality.
When we realized it's time to make peace, we fight our anger to make things up.
However, when things gone too serious & love start to fades... we fight & fight & fight again.
When we think the love should end, we start to fight for freedom.
The battle has not end yet, we still have to fight through the memories.
When one move on & leave the memories behind, he/she is the winner.

So,
Why do we have to act like fighters when we're supposed to love & to be loved?
When one knows that the relationship started with hectic-ness...
Obviously it won't be a happy ending, yes?

Well, that's what I think.
One do not have to change for another.
If we do not prior the same things now, we won't prior the same marriage in future.

Peeps, this doesn't mean anything about my love life lmao.
I'm just saying...
One has to be smart to find love. :)




As for me, I've fought. & won. :)
(& I'm proud of what I'm going through now)


Sher W.